E-Kris Inspirations

F-R-I-E-N-D-S is an acronym that captures the process of choosing, initiating, and sustaining godly relationships. It is built on the principle of taking control of our destiny, setting the pace of our relationships, and enforcing alignment with our goals, values, and convictions. 🔖 F – Find and Locate People Heading in Your Direction The places we hang out often reveal the kind of people who will hang around us. Your “lifestyle locations”—cinemas, clubs, churches, sports fields—show your passions and interests. If you want friends who share your destiny, position yourself in the right places. 🔖 R – Reach Out to Your Value Type and Learn to Smile Your value type are people with mutual values. Friendship begins with openness—learn to greet, smile, and engage those who are aligned with your convictions. 🔖 I – Initiate with Intention (implicit in the process) Building a friendship requires courage to take the first step. Do not wait passively—be intentional in initiating meanin...

Falling in love is one of life’s most intense and captivating experiences. At first, it gives us the illusion that we share a perfect, intimate relationship, a feeling that we truly belong to each other. In this state, it seems as though the challenges of life can be conquered together, and every desire is directed toward making our partner happy. One young man described his feelings for his fiancée: “I can’t conceive of doing anything to hurt her. My only desire is to make her happy. I would do anything for her.” This sense of obsession creates a powerful but often misleading illusion. We feel that our egocentric tendencies have disappeared, replaced by a selfless devotion reminiscent of Mother Teresa. The freedom with which we give comes from the sincere belief that our lover reciprocates these feelings. We assume they are equally committed to meeting our needs and would never intentionally hurt us. In these early stages, the world seems to shrink into a private universe shared by t...

A kiss is one of those universal languages that every culture, every generation, and every person understands in their own way. But if you ask different school subjects to define it, each will give you a playful answer. Let’s take a little journey through the classroom of life and see which one truly captures the magic of a kiss. Mathematics says a kiss is the shortest distance between two lips. Neat, precise, and calculated, math reduces the mystery of love to a formula. It’s cute, yes, but love has never really been about perfect equations. Biology jumps in and calls a kiss the exchange of germs from one mouth to another. Technically, this is true—millions of bacteria do pass between two people when they kiss. Yet, describing a kiss this way makes it sound more like a science experiment than a tender moment. Chemistry takes a romantic yet scientific view: a kiss is the process of testing the pH of the lips. But beyond the humor, this subject digs deeper. Kisses actually do spa...