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FRIENDS

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                What I see friends As                          F-R-I-E-N-D-S : F-R-I-E-N-D-S is an acronym  that I developed to capture  the process  of choosing,initiating,and sustaining godly relationships. The basic principle of taking  control  of our destiny, dictating the  pace of the relationship  and enforcing compliance  to our goals, valves and convictions. F -   Find and locate people  who are heading in your  direction : The place we hangout  often give an indication  of the kind of people  that will hang around  us. Generally we go to the  places of interest, excitement  and fascination. I call places  we visit regularly, our lifestyle  location because  they  are our  interest  and passions.  Take a look  at your  typical  week. Where do you  think you  will be next Thursday  evening - a cinema, a club or a church? Do you engage in any games  or sports for recreational  purpose?  R - Reach out to your valve type  and learn how  to smile   Your v

Falling in love

Falling in~love   : state gives us the illusion that  we have an intimate  relationship, feeling  that  we belong  to each other. We believe  we can  conquer  all problems.As one young man  said  about  his fiancee, I can't  conceive  if doing anything  to hurt her. My only desire  is to make  her happy.I would  do anything  to make her happy. Such  obsession  gives us the false sense that our egocentric  attitudes  have been eradicated and we have become sort of a Mother Teresa, willing to give  for the benefit  of our lover. The reason  we can do that so freely  is that we sincerely  believe  that our lover feel the same way toward  us. We believe  she is committed  to meeting our needs, that he loves us as much as we love him and would  never  do anything  to hurt us. Remember, the average in~love experience  last two years  we will return  to the world  of reality  and begin to assert ourselves. He will express  his desires, but his desires will be different  from hers. He

Kiss

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Which subject  best describes  kiss   Maths ~kiss is the shortest distance between two lips ... Biology ~kiss is just the exchange  of germs from one mouth  to another ... Chemistry ~kiss is the process of testing  the PH the lips... Physics ~kiss is the process of charging  a human  body... Computer ~kiss is a local area network  in which  two bodies  are connected  without  a datat  cable... Economics ~kiss is a process  which  demand  is higher  than supply... English ~kiss is a touch or caress with the lips ... Give me the subject  you find best explains a kiss...

classification of friendship

We could classify friendship into  strangers,acqaintances,friends or lover.For clarity and due to the frequent misuse of words.let's take sometime to clearly define these terms for the purposes of readers. Stranger:  people are said to be complete stranger when both parties don't know a thing about each other.example:she might have seen him around,heard about or watched a film featuring him.Nevertheless if she does not have the same measure of information concerning him,then they are "partial stranger".             Acquaintance: This is a sernario where both parties have mutual but general information about each other.It is a relationship without much depth,barely going beyond exchanging greetings and general comments.Acquaintances often share a common neighbourhood,offices,place of recretion,religious gathering etc. They have no in-depth knowledge of one another. The are similar With each other,ofter with surface  interactions and nothing more. Usually people like